July 18, 2011

Women as Trauma Healers

Greetings to all the readers! :-)


For some reason the transliteration button on my computer is not working and therefore I am writing this post in English. Apologies for any inconvenience. 


These days, I am writing a paper for Georgetown University (US) that highlights the role of women and religion in trauma healing in Indian context. We all know violence, poverty and disasters cause trauma for the survivors.


During my career with the Red Cross, I had the opportunity to travel all over India to serve those who were suffering due to natural disasters and armed conflicts. I had the honor of meeting strong men, women, elderly and children who not only survived the crisis but volunteered to assist others.  


My observation has been that women emerge as the strongest (psychologically) because for most of them struggle is part of their lives before or after the disaster. They do their best to keep going and taking care of their families and communities. Most of  them derived strength from the almighty, no matter what religion they came from. Unfortunately, their work is not always recognized or documented.


The women at their level try to facilitate healing for themselves and for their dear ones. In addition to nurturing the family, they take refuge in the religious activities. A colleague from Kashmir shared that women are participating in prayers and doing what Quran commands such as ‘help each other’ and support each other. Many women groups have emerged in the conflict affected areas in the country. Naga Mothers Association in Nagaland and Association of Parents of Disappeared Persons (APDP) by Parveena Ahangar in Kashmri are two examples of women led organizations.  Brahmakumaris is another spiritual group that strives to bring peace around the world through their work.


When the resilience of a woman is combined with the power of God, great things happen. If anybody knows of any woman or women's group that is working towards trauma healing and/or peace building in India, please share with me because I would like to recognize as many groups as I can. If we promote their good work we can rally more support for them as well. 


Warm regards!

4 comments:

  1. महिलाओं का गर कहीं, होता है अपमान ,
    सिखला दुष्टों को सबक, खींचों जमके कान |


    खींचों जमके कान, नहीं महतारी खींची ,
    बाढ़ा पेड़ बबूल, करे जो हरकत नीची ||


    कृपा नहीं दायित्व, हमारा सबसे पहिला,
    धात्री का हो मान, सुरक्षित होवे महिला ||

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  2. Anjana
    the transliteration button has been disabled by google as of now



    yes many woman are in this field and one is my mother aged 72 who learn't Reiki after a successful career as Hindi Professor with University of Delhi for 42 long years .

    You can see http://mysparshtarang.blogspot.com/

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  3. Thanks so much Rachna :-) I will look up the link you have provided.

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  4. जी आप इतनी समझदार और पुरानी ब्लॉगर होकर ऐसी निराशाजनक बातें कर रही हैं इसका मतलब यह हुआ की आप अपने द्वारा शुरू किये मकसद से भटक रही हैं यही तो वोह लोग चाहते हैं आपने यह ब्लॉग शुरू करके नारी समाज में चेतना जगाई और उन्हें मौका दिया अपने बारे में समझने का अपने बारे में जानने का की क्या हैं नारी रचना जी जहाँ तक मैं समझता हूँ नारी ही सर्वज्ञ है नारी ना होती तो हम कहाँ होते परन्तु कई बार आपने देखा होगा जब बच्चा बड़ा हो जाता है तो वो अपने आप को सर्वज्ञानी समझाने लगता है और जो उनके बड़े होते हैं उन्हें गौण समझने लगता है परन्तु वोह यह भूल जाता है की बड़े फिर भी बड़े ही रहते हैं और रही बात भला बुरा कहने और आलोचना करने की करने दो उन्हें आलोचना और इसी को अपना हथियार बनाकर अपनी मंजिलें चढ़ती चली जाएँ आप एक बहादुर महिला हैं छोटे मोटे किस्सों की तरफ ध्यान दोगे तो ऐसे लोग अपने मकसद में कामयाब हो जायेंगे जो की वो चाहते हैं

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